LET ME TELL YOU A STORY

Last night, i was out on a 'date' with this guy who is way way older than me and he violated my space. My left legs' space to be exact. He grabbed, pored his earthy looking hands over my mochalicious legs.

He said that he was a touchy-feely person. I, on the other hand, is the opposite of touchy-feely especially to people i have met for the first time like in bank queues, public transport, elevators and most especially dates with men who were so lucky to be given time by ladies like me. I do not like the tip of my elbow touching any form of epidermis on strangers. Because i don't like it. I have space. And i will allow you to step in my space if i want you to.

He also grabbed my hand while he was driving and smelled it. I wish i had just perfumed it with my fart. Then he touched and brushed his hand on my left thigh again. I told him to please stop and that i don't like being touched. I shielded myself to those dirty hands with my bag and hands but he kept on. There goes the word--- PLEASE. It meant everything to me. Please meant God, help me eject this man out of his car seat and be crushed by a ten wheeler truck along EDSA like a stray cat. That was too harsh but i know God can do more than that.

The weird thing is that i couldn't do anything. I was helpless. Iba talaga pag andun ka na sa sitwasyon na ganun no matter how tough i seem to be. I was so afraid. I just don't know what i will do if he tried to grab my boobs kasi he also touched my stomach to feel my wobbly bits. My stomach was a finger a way from my not so plump boobs.

He said he has weaknesses for legs especially nice ones. And my legs were nice. I know that. Every woman takes good care of her legs and i am a woman who likes to slather lotion but never did i imagine in my life that that incident will happen to me. I was dumbfounded. God, i interview women who were raped, molested and even impregnated by their own fathers but this thing that happened to me was just so surreal.

My exboyfriend called me up today from Paris and i told him what happened to me last night. And you know, based on my experience, the worst dates i had including this one are with guess who? Filipino men. I could not just believe my personal statistics.

I realized i cried myself to sleep because of that.